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A “wonderful” part of being a woman is accidentally smiling while making eye contact with the wrong man and now he is in love and, even worse, insistent that you must be in love as well. No words, deeds or restraining orders will dissuade him from this thought. Fortunately, folks online have taken to screenshotting messages from these sorts of fellows to name and shame them.
We’ve gathered some of the most delusional expectations “nice guys” have had of women. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote the ones that made you roll your eyes the most and be sure to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section below.
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This Guy Who Expected A Relationship With A Woman After He Comforted Her — Also Known As... Just Being A Bare-Minimum Friend
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Brenda Brenda Community Member Follow
Well said!
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Ngvc: "I Make 100k+ A Year, What Do You Bring To The Table?"
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Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het Community Member Follow
Expertly shot down. This was fantastic to read. Marry me.
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Ngvc: “You Got A Nice Set Of Mommy Milkers”
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Brenda Brenda Community Member Follow
Mommy milkers? Good grief! 🙄
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For those who are not in the loop, a “nice guy” isn’t just a fantastically underrated Ryan Gosling movie or a man who is nice, it refers to a very specific subset of romantically unsuccessful men. These men, similar to the ones in these screenshots, have a misguided and frankly entitled belief that if they are just nice to women, they will receive love and attention in return. Given the fact that humans are not vending machines, this has no bearing on reality, but when this fact rears its head, these men tend to get very angry. It’s also worth noting that “nice guys” are not particularly nice in general, equating some conversation and favors to being a “perfect partner.”
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Why Aren't Women More Superficial?
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Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het Community Member Follow
I am guessing his personality sucks.
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“Toddlers Are Well Built And Curvy”
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Brenda Brenda Community Member Follow
Pervert! You DEFINITELY did the right thing! That's creepy as he!!, talking about a toddler that way! Or any child!
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Ngvc "Decent Guy, Only Wants One Thing From His Date"
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Tobias Reaper Tobias Reaper Community Member Follow
when your date says they want to see you again thats a good end to a date what is wrong with this moron
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When told that, actually, being nice via text or internet comment doesn’t make someone instantly fall for you, “nice guys” tend to react with anger. First and foremost, this very quickly shreds any last illusion that they are nice at all. This anger at their delusions being dismissed is almost as ridiculous as some of the demands they have of women who wouldn’t look at them twice.
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This Guy Who Expected To Find A Match Because He Said He Doesn't Care About Looks Or Sex In His Profile... But Then Had This As His Opening Line
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Marianne Marianne Community Member Follow
"Have the day you deserve." I will definitely be stealing this.
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Poor Brandon
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fu yu fu yu Community Member Follow
Shannon knows douchenozzle when she sees it.
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Ngvc: "It's A Real Shame Too. I Would've Treated You Like A Princess"
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Shark Lady Shark Lady Community Member Follow
I'd be contacting the police as well as his superiors. It was bad enough that he used her personal information to contact her, but that last text was scary and disturbing.
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This is all to say that self-proclaimed “nice guys” tend to be neither nice nor good romantic matches. There have been enough cases where these men, met with rejection, turn to stalking and other forms of harassment that tend to be considerably worse than anything the stereotypical “jerk” might do.
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This Guy Who Thought He Deserved Constant Communication With His Dating App Match Simply Because They Matched... A Few Hours Prior
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Delta Dawn Delta Dawn Community Member Follow
BARF
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This Nice Guy Who Expected Immediate Replies To His Texts And Then Told The Woman He Was Texting He Was Just Trying To Teach Her A Lesson
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Brenda Brenda Community Member Follow
Anyone who spams you period, let alone in the middle of the day during normal working hours (when they also should be working), has already shown their true selves. Don't bother replying & block!
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Ngvc: "I Sexually Harassed A Woman Who Didn't Have The Ability To Just Walk Away From Me, And She Isn't Happy About It. And You Women Say You Want Nice Guys"
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Brenda Brenda Community Member Follow
Nice guys don't badger a person after they say no. They understand NO means NO!
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The main cause of the issue, as with so much else, is a feeling of entitlement. Not only do these fellows think that having a partner is some sort of God-given right, they also have pretty strong opinions about what this partner should do, think and look like. Naturally, we can probably guess that these men most likely don’t, themselves, fit the bill at all, but that is beyond the point.
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This Guy Who Thought He Deserved A Woman Because Of His Persistence... And Expert Gaslighting Skills
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Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het Community Member Follow
Guess what? No means no.
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Ngvc: "I'm Not A Sexist But Females Owe Me Sex"
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Delta Dawn Delta Dawn Community Member Follow
I feel like this one needs to be on a watch list
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Ngvc: "Just Trying To Be Nice"
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Brenda Brenda Community Member Follow
I'd have run out of there!
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This Guy Who Felt Entitled To A Date After Putting Down Other Women
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Sue Denham Sue Denham Community Member Follow
"Act like a braindead b!tch"? What? You want me to pretend to be you? Kinky!
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Ngvc "I Am Handsome, Educated And Have Money But Single. What Is The Problem"
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Tobias Reaper Tobias Reaper Community Member Follow
at a guess id say s**t personality
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Ngvc: "I'm Also A Little Older And More Mature Than You (No Offense)"
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Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa) Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa) Community Member Follow
Step one: get a screenshot. Step two: take it to the school counselor. Step three: prepare to get a restraining order issued if it continues. I've been stalked before. It's not fun.
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That Happened
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Things that never happend
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This "Nice And Stable" Guy Who Thought He Deserved A Date After Catfishing 200 Women To Try To Prove His Misogynistic Point
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200 women out of 200 were instantly put off when they found you'd already lied to them before they even clicked on your profile. What a surprise.
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Ngvc: "I'm A Nice Guy Once You Know Me, But No You Judge A Book By It's Cover"
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Rayne OfSalt Rayne OfSalt Community Member Follow
"women won't sleep with me because they're sl*ts" is a bizarre take.
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This Guy Who Mistook A Woman Just Being A Normal Human Being As Romantic Interest And Felt Entitled To A Relationship With Her
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Brenda Brenda Community Member Follow
You can't win back what you never had.
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This Classical Music Enthusiast Who Expected A Dm From This Woman After Insulting Her Taste In Music
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Tobias Reaper Tobias Reaper Community Member Follow
m'lady this dude is walking talking fedora
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This Guy Who Thought Buying Someone Drinks Meant They Owe You Sex
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Sue Denham Sue Denham Community Member Follow
If that's how you expected the evening to end A) you should have gone to a professional and B) $20.00 wouldn't begin to be enough.
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Ngvc: "I Hope He Dead, He Maybe Doesn't Even Love You, I Do"
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Brenda Brenda Community Member Follow
Block, block, block!!
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This Guy Who Expected A Date After Showing A Random Woman At A Bar How Much Was In His Bank Account
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He’s just showing you how much of a banker he is ,…… opps that should have started with a W
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This Guy Who Expected A Stranger On The Internet To Want To Date Him Just Because He (Sort Of?) Complimented Her
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Brenda Brenda Community Member Follow
Dude, what message did you read?
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Ngvc "I'm Such An Awesome Guy! Why Won't Girls Date Me"
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Brenda Brenda Community Member Follow
Maybe because you're a pompous, narcissistic douche bag?
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Ngvc: "High Value Man"
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This guy is clearly not good at his job. Otherwise he would have done his due diligence and properly calculated the risk of being perceived a wanker with an opener like that.
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Ngvc: "I Tried To Be Polite... F**k That B***h"
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Green Tree Green Tree Community Member Follow
Her AH radar works
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The worst thing about this is a growing number of incel 'communities' mainly online chat groups, who encourage each other to share stories about how they're constantly being rejected by the 'bitches' in favour of 'chads' and how the deserve so much better. They manage to convince themselves that all women are superficial and will only ever date what they (the incels) think is the perfect specimen of manhood.
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bElLa sTairZz bElLa sTairZz Community Member Follow
whilst they (the incels) only date women they see as the perfect specimen of womanhood
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Limey Cheesehead Limey Cheesehead Community Member Follow
The sad thing is that most of these men wouldn't date a woman who they didn't think was "perfect". I'm sure they'd reject any woman who isn't thin and conventionally beautiful.
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devotedtodreams devotedtodreams Community Member Follow
Okay, real question: is this what dating is like in all age groups who use the internet, or is this more a "younger folks" thing? I'm almost 36 and sometimes think it would be nice to have a partner once more... but if this is what the dating landscape is like, I'd rather die alone.
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ScootyPuffJr ScootyPuffJr Community Member Follow
I'm dating in my mid 40s, and I haven't run across a dude like these in at least15+ years. The dating pool gets smaller as you age, but I think the quality improves!!
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The worst thing about this is a growing number of incel 'communities' mainly online chat groups, who encourage each other to share stories about how they're constantly being rejected by the 'bitches' in favour of 'chads' and how the deserve so much better. They manage to convince themselves that all women are superficial and will only ever date what they (the incels) think is the perfect specimen of manhood.
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bElLa sTairZz bElLa sTairZz Community Member Follow
whilst they (the incels) only date women they see as the perfect specimen of womanhood
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Limey Cheesehead Limey Cheesehead Community Member Follow
The sad thing is that most of these men wouldn't date a woman who they didn't think was "perfect". I'm sure they'd reject any woman who isn't thin and conventionally beautiful.
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devotedtodreams devotedtodreams Community Member Follow
Okay, real question: is this what dating is like in all age groups who use the internet, or is this more a "younger folks" thing? I'm almost 36 and sometimes think it would be nice to have a partner once more... but if this is what the dating landscape is like, I'd rather die alone.
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I'm dating in my mid 40s, and I haven't run across a dude like these in at least15+ years. The dating pool gets smaller as you age, but I think the quality improves!!
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